買了新車的後果 - Toyota
By Kristin
at 2020-11-24T13:04
at 2020-11-24T13:04
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※ 引述《a9940597 (假摔哥)》之銘言:
: 大家好,自從上次po文買新車很盤被噓到爆之後,今天也當了盤子買了新土桑1.6,但是
: 問題來了......,老婆大人抓狂了,說花90買現代車不如買CX30,怎麼辦,吵到屋頂快掀
: 了
: 。
: 該怎麼解釋比較好呢?
你要下單前沒有跟老婆討論好就下單喔?
千萬不要相信一些推文說的沒出錢閉嘴這種話,
以後贍養費那些推文ID又不會幫你出。
你發生的這個問題有很多層面,
品牌喜好本身就很難突破,
像我爸,我留學時擅自買了台toyota,
簡直就是不肖女了好嗎?
國際電話被罵兩小時(當時網路還撥接沒有line)
因為他就是討厭日系車到極點。
而我公公則是日系車愛好者,日系休旅從我認識他到現在,
大概三年換一台新的吧,每次都一樣非常鐵粉。
如果你太太的絕對不要品牌是韓國車,
你沒先討論就去下單,
難怪炸成這樣啊!
換個方向想,
韓國車是你的誰,寧願跟老婆吵翻了也要守護嗎?
不管是另一台你太太提的車、或是選擇名單上第三名第四名,
差異有那麼重要嗎?
我家無論買車或是買房,
我跟我先生都是一樣,
非常尊重對方的絕對不要名單,
不可能有十全十美的車、十全十美的房子,
決定哪台都是許多自我妥協的結果(那種家裡有莊園古堡、
出入有直升機私人飛機可選的不討論)
結婚了,當然要把對方的意見,同等的重視,溝通討論。
若要溝通討論順利,
對方就算不特別對車有興趣,
也要鼓勵對方多瞭解車子,
我家要換車的半年前,
我大概就會在car版出沒,
東看一點西看一點,
其他討論區加減看,
youtube國內外評論影片也看(一開始看到秒睡,跟數學課差不多)
這樣討論起來才有憑有據,
不是出自老婆對各種車的刻板印象,三秒內決定你說的那台好不好。
這些物質的東西,就只是工具,
買了你覺得划算的車,
但付出了婚姻感情,才是最大的盤子啊。
對了,現在就算買車是我跟先生出錢(廢話),
我爸還是會關心我們要買哪台,
因為要載他的寶貝外孫,
即使他沒出錢,
我還是把他最討厭的從名單上拉掉了,
家人之間不要有那種出錢的最大、有本事自己買那樣的想法,
久了感情就散了。
也許我回文晚了,
跟老婆慢慢說你選擇的理由,
還有道歉沒有先討論好就衝動下單,
但取消的話如果有罰則扣款,丟個球給老婆決定怎麼做,
說不定她會接受你選的這台車,
或是兩人承受點損失,再一起選一台都喜歡的車。
--
: 大家好,自從上次po文買新車很盤被噓到爆之後,今天也當了盤子買了新土桑1.6,但是
: 問題來了......,老婆大人抓狂了,說花90買現代車不如買CX30,怎麼辦,吵到屋頂快掀
: 了
: 。
: 該怎麼解釋比較好呢?
你要下單前沒有跟老婆討論好就下單喔?
千萬不要相信一些推文說的沒出錢閉嘴這種話,
以後贍養費那些推文ID又不會幫你出。
你發生的這個問題有很多層面,
品牌喜好本身就很難突破,
像我爸,我留學時擅自買了台toyota,
簡直就是不肖女了好嗎?
國際電話被罵兩小時(當時網路還撥接沒有line)
因為他就是討厭日系車到極點。
而我公公則是日系車愛好者,日系休旅從我認識他到現在,
大概三年換一台新的吧,每次都一樣非常鐵粉。
如果你太太的絕對不要品牌是韓國車,
你沒先討論就去下單,
難怪炸成這樣啊!
換個方向想,
韓國車是你的誰,寧願跟老婆吵翻了也要守護嗎?
不管是另一台你太太提的車、或是選擇名單上第三名第四名,
差異有那麼重要嗎?
我家無論買車或是買房,
我跟我先生都是一樣,
非常尊重對方的絕對不要名單,
不可能有十全十美的車、十全十美的房子,
決定哪台都是許多自我妥協的結果(那種家裡有莊園古堡、
出入有直升機私人飛機可選的不討論)
結婚了,當然要把對方的意見,同等的重視,溝通討論。
若要溝通討論順利,
對方就算不特別對車有興趣,
也要鼓勵對方多瞭解車子,
我家要換車的半年前,
我大概就會在car版出沒,
東看一點西看一點,
其他討論區加減看,
youtube國內外評論影片也看(一開始看到秒睡,跟數學課差不多)
這樣討論起來才有憑有據,
不是出自老婆對各種車的刻板印象,三秒內決定你說的那台好不好。
這些物質的東西,就只是工具,
買了你覺得划算的車,
但付出了婚姻感情,才是最大的盤子啊。
對了,現在就算買車是我跟先生出錢(廢話),
我爸還是會關心我們要買哪台,
因為要載他的寶貝外孫,
即使他沒出錢,
我還是把他最討厭的從名單上拉掉了,
家人之間不要有那種出錢的最大、有本事自己買那樣的想法,
久了感情就散了。
也許我回文晚了,
跟老婆慢慢說你選擇的理由,
還有道歉沒有先討論好就衝動下單,
但取消的話如果有罰則扣款,丟個球給老婆決定怎麼做,
說不定她會接受你選的這台車,
或是兩人承受點損失,再一起選一台都喜歡的車。
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